FourSeven said:
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A couple quick questions about life on a CFB.
1. How much time is typically alloted to free time? I know there is no cookie cutter answer as it varies with different excersizes and whatnot, but your typical workday aside from that I'd guess is in the area of 10-12 hours?
2. are your rooms controlled as strictly as they are in bmq, or can you take along a tv or whatever?
3. How's the food?
4. do you inevitably lose or distance your pre-military friends?
As a formality, I have to post the typical "I wasn't sure if this is the right place to post and so forth and so on
First - you picked the right forum for your thread.
Second - I am out of date and will not speak to the specifics of barracks life, but I will mention that you are about to receive wildly diferring views regarding discipline in the barracks, and food quality on the respective bases. Suffice to say that it all "depends".
I CAN, and will speak to your fourth point, however.
I first joined the CF when I was 17. I didn't (and still don't) have a very large circle of friends - a lot of acquaintances (then and now), but few "friends". Perhaps my definition of "friend" is more severe than yours - I don't know.
As I pursued my career in the CF, my interests inevitably parted ways with those of my civilian friends. I lost touch with all my pre-enrolment friends save one. He and I still correspond and occasionally visit each other - and I value his friendship.
A friendship more than forty years long is something to value. My civilian friend will never understand my military point of view, and I'll never understand his civilian one - but underneath those things, we are both long-married, fathers of grown children, and have similar interests (outside the military) - so we still have much in common.
During my service, I made many other friends and acquaintances - some of whom I'm still in touch with, most of whom I'm not. I have friends from The UK, The Netherlands, The US, Australia, Spain, Germany, Denmark, Iraq, and a few other places. I'll grant that these are not CLOSE friends - these are folks with whom I correspond once or twice a year, and whose invitation to stay at their place if I'm ever in that part of the world I know I can take to the bank - as can they my reciprocal invitation.
It doesn't matter what you do with your life, your path and your current friend's will no doubt diverge - you'll make new friends, you'll stay in touch with some old ones. I think you "inevitably lose or distance" your friends, no matter WHAT you do - military or otherwise. Sometimes, as in my case, you'll maintain a valued friendship or two for a lifetime.
It's just part of life.
Best of luck to you.
Roy