Q1 - there is no requirement for references when initially applying online. References are only required once your file has been transferred to your local CFRC and once they ask you for them.
Q2 - If your file is still with North Bay, then I would send an email to jobs@forces.ca and ask for an "update" on your file status. If your file is with your local CFRC, then you need to be contacting them. You must have heard something from someone at some point during this process......
Q3 - Processing for Res F and Reg F are two different things. Res F applications are "immediately" sent to your local CFRC once they are received and from that point on, it is their responsibility to manage your file. So a Res F online application is reviewed and forwarded within 4-5 business days. A Reg F application requires you to send in "COPIES" of your Birth Certificate, Proof of Citizenship and "all" your Academic Transcripts. Once these are received, they are reviewed and you are notified of the results, this is usually done within 2 weeks, dependant upon the work load.
I would just ask for a "file update" at this point in time to see what your status is. Be sure to include your "Applicant ID" and as I mentioned before, you do this through whom ever is currently managing your file.