I have been considering going into the reserves. I am doing it because I can see where my life is going and I need to change it. I have a wife and 2 kids and I am 39. I've talked to a recuiter and plan to get in touch with more questions. But given the amount of people on this forum, I'm hopin someone will be able to help me with thes couple of questions. This one may seem like a silly question but how will it help my parenting and how will it help me with life in general? These may seem like silly question like I've said but they are question that keep coming to my mind. I don't know where to find them in the subjects menu. Thank you.