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Hi everyone,
This is a special request. Long story short...13 years ago my girlfriend at the time got pregnant. It's basically when I decided to transfert reg force. While in BMQ, she cheated on me and ended up leaving me. (Basic military story). So when my son was born, I was in Halifax and she put on the birth certificate "unknown father". I have tried to fight for my right a few times at the beginning but it was difficult and ended up giving up for the time being. (sorry it's getting long but it's a long story...)
Now, 2 days ago my sister found is blog on internet. She contacted him and so I did. I made sure not to be direct, did not want to screw his mind up. My sister talk to him on MSN. Turned out his step dad found the firs email and posed as him writing.
Now, I got two different emails where the content and tone where different than what my sister experienced. I' am thinking that it might be really him writing. So I need a way to find out the location where is email was sent. I' am hopping that if he use a computer in school, the IP address might be different than from his computer at home.
Does anyone know how to do this?
My second questions would be. Could I legally have problems from contacting him. His step dad threathed to adopt him so I can't do anything. Would this wave any of my rights? I know I should probably talk to a lawyer but with 2 kids that live with me and a wife on and OS salary incentive one, kind of feel the pain money wises.
Thanks for taking the time for reading this. You guys are great. I' am sure I can find help within the military family.
regards, navy-nesop
This is a special request. Long story short...13 years ago my girlfriend at the time got pregnant. It's basically when I decided to transfert reg force. While in BMQ, she cheated on me and ended up leaving me. (Basic military story). So when my son was born, I was in Halifax and she put on the birth certificate "unknown father". I have tried to fight for my right a few times at the beginning but it was difficult and ended up giving up for the time being. (sorry it's getting long but it's a long story...)
Now, 2 days ago my sister found is blog on internet. She contacted him and so I did. I made sure not to be direct, did not want to screw his mind up. My sister talk to him on MSN. Turned out his step dad found the firs email and posed as him writing.
Now, I got two different emails where the content and tone where different than what my sister experienced. I' am thinking that it might be really him writing. So I need a way to find out the location where is email was sent. I' am hopping that if he use a computer in school, the IP address might be different than from his computer at home.
Does anyone know how to do this?
My second questions would be. Could I legally have problems from contacting him. His step dad threathed to adopt him so I can't do anything. Would this wave any of my rights? I know I should probably talk to a lawyer but with 2 kids that live with me and a wife on and OS salary incentive one, kind of feel the pain money wises.
Thanks for taking the time for reading this. You guys are great. I' am sure I can find help within the military family.
regards, navy-nesop