Im engaged to a man who is serving proudly in Kaf. Seeing my dad go and come back twice, I figured this was going to be pretty easy for me to say goodbye and then wait patiently as he returns. WRONG!! Since he has been "in country" at KAF, he does call on a regular basis. but all he discusses is how soldiers are cheating on their wives, how wives are cheating on their husbands, how openly this has been agreeded upon with both parties. He has told me how female soldiers are basically stalking him (lol). I sometimes wonder if its better to just let him go, have his fun, and if he comes home to me, then get re-engaged. We do get an opportunity (20 minutes) to talk on the computer, and he does call, but recently he says the tower was blown out, so he calls from a land line which is timed. Has anyone faced this? Or am I blowing this completely out of porportion??