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Oh sorry, by partner I mean boyfriend Just looking around. And to the comment above mine, I would tell them. Don`t start of a relationship with lies
novascotiagirl said:yes, but I really don`t know what i would do. And I would want something that goes well with his career so then we could move together. I am trying to find out more about the reserves. The thing is though, if I had a career in the military, would it have to be in the navy like him? I really am new to this all
Pisces201 said:I have a great job of my own, which I had for 5 years before we met, three years ago. We decided when he joined the CF (just last fall)that I am going to continue with my career. I am a biologist for the Federal Government. I do know that I would be a "priority 1" if I did want to follow my DH around, but in the science field it really isn't a good thing to keep switching jobs every few years. I like where I live and I like my job- a lot. We are going to try to make it work with me staying here and having my career, and he going where he has to and having his career. I have not found much support from anyone about keeping my career. Everyone seems to think that I have to give up the last 8 years of my life and follow my DH around. I know this is just the beginning- but I am really hoping that somehow it can work! A lot of business people (etc) travel while spouses stay put in one city with their jobs- why can't we have that option?