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i used my doctor that ive known for about 3-4 and half years, and my gf's mom :S i havent known either for a full 5 years, so they're not strict but it has to be atleast a number of years.
Insanehuman said:Ok guys. I don't know any employer/teacher for 5 years. Two years of high school and the only person that knows me best is my Gym teacher. Should i take a reference from him or my road in military is closed?
Makaveli said:I had a friend that I've known for 10 years and owns his own business, and my ex-girlfriend's mom as 2 of my references. Do you think these are good choices? I am also going to get 2 of my ex-employers to do them to.
Makaveli said:Most of the teachers I had in high school aren't there anymore, and it is unlikely that the ones that are would remember me well enough to give an informed reference. I was recently in driving school, would my instructor there be an OK reference?
misfit said:If the refrences turn out to be garbage, when would one find out during the application process?
kincanucks said:References, ahhh my favourite subject especially ROTP SLORs. When I am preparing to do a ROTP interview, in fact any interview, and I pull out the references and I see the word friend then the reference goes back into the file unread. So if you really want a job in the CF why wouldn't you put some effort in getting references from people that can honestly and without bias comment on your abilities and attributes? Just perplexes me sometimes.
derael said:I can see your point but I have to disagree.(to an extent)
Friend or not, the applicant is not likely to hand in anything that says something bad about him/her or that would make him/her look like a bad candidate, so pretty much any reference could be a bias one. If the CF wanted to prevent that type of issue all together they could try some alternative measure such as taking 10-15 minutes to phone the reference to see if they can back up what they claim to know about the applicant. Its a lot easier to spot BS when you can hear someone over the phone not just writing on paper. Plus there's a good chance the reference won't remember exactly what they put on the sheet, so if they were honest, the answers on the sheet should generally correspond with what they've said over the phone.
Is my opinion on this bias? Probably, but I think I still have a valid point. I went the CEOTP route and one of my references was a friend that I've had for a good 10 years now and of all the people in the world he probably knows my character the best. My other was a former roomate, coworker and friend of 4 years. Just because they are friends I don't believe that makes them bad references. If the CF didn't want these types of references then they should just simply not allow them.
I guess I'll just have to hope kincanucks isn't the one reviewing my references.