I almost wanted to post this in the Mental Health section because I will be blunt - there is no pain; however, my "moobs" have taken a mental strain on me. I have had them since puberty, I guess, and they seem to stick around no matter how lean I get. I feel like developing my chest has helped slightly, and I am going to try one last cut to get to sub-10% body fat before I action anything, but I need them gone for my self-esteem. I spend a seriously large amount of time thinking about them, researching ways to get rid of them, etc and sometimes I can't focus because of this.
That said, I am not seeking a hand-out from the military, I am willing to pay to seperate myself from them, and even take my own vacation days for the healing. My problem is, I am absolutely unwilling to bring it up. I am frankly embarassed. I have my yearly AC medical coming up and was considering bringing it up to the FS, but everything I think about it I just get nervous and know I would never bring it up.
On to my questions, I am wondering if I am allowed to get elective surgery like this at a local faciliate, on my own dime, without consent from the military? Could I get in trouble for this? Is there any way to make bringing it up during my medical easier? Will the doc laugh me silly?
From my understanding it is about 3-4,000 to get it done, and I am willing to spend that on my self-esteem, but my worry is if there are complications I could get in trouble from the military. I was also contemplating just going to the place for a consultation, surely that would cause no harm.
Anyways, sorry for unloading on this forum. I do not really know where else to turn for advice. If this is in the wrong forum, please move it mods thank you.
- Troubled guy with moobs.