I can totally understand too.
But decide to be an adult and make your own choices, or if you want to work in a civilian occupation, as boss mustang asked, then go do it. The testiness happens when you ask a question like this;
"My mom and dad don't want me to become an army guy cuz there are guns and stuff involved. Should I become a fireman or a chef or or a things like that...Any help would be nifty"
Well here it is. Yes, It's dangerous. Yep we get shot at, blown up, See awful crap, and live the rest of our lives trying to repair ourselves.
So I apologize if I seem a bit testy, but some sense and decorum would be appreciated. It would help those who go to their room after a fight with mum and dad, slam the door, and type their "feelings" expecting to find someone out there that sympathizes with them, would stop and not do that.
Firefighter.....yep that ain't dangerous.....
whew
I am getting testy....must stop....
tess