captloadie said:
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It would appear then that the CF regulations on common law status are less stringent. At first glance, one could say this is done to grant members entitlements (Relocation, Health, Pension, etc.) sooner, or that they would not otherwise be entitled to (in the case of not being legally divorced) if other federal or provincial regulations were applied. It would not be out of the realm of possibility that if the OP's particular case were to come up to one of the external organizations (CRA, Immigration Canada) because of perceived irregularities, pointed questions may be asked of current CF policy.
I could reply with a sarcastic "have you read any of the other posts in this thread", but I'm much too nice a guy for that. The recognition of a common-law relationship by the CF is only for the purpose of the National Defence Act. It has no bearing on the administration of any other law or regulation by any other federal or provincial government agency (slight correction - it 'may' have some bearing when the other law/regulation is applied to an individual whose only connection to the other law/reg is because of status conferred by the NDA). That being said, the conditions set for recognition of a common-law relationship by all the agencies falling under federal jurisdiction is consistent (and always has been). Whether the 'interpretation' of those conditions is consistent (and enforcement of the laws/regulations pertaining) across all federal departments is another matter. There is no "irregularity" in the CF definition of common-law. When the major amendments to that particular QR&O was made (
as noted in the differences between the current version v. the circa mid-90s version posted in this thread) similar changes were made to those definitions used by other federal agencies. As open to interpretation (IMO) as this particular QR&O is (and probably many others) they are not conceived in a vacuum. Nothing gets published in QR&Os without being vetted by the lawyers (of course I've never accused lawyers of being infallible).
There are two separate and distinct issues raised by the OP's question with regards to common-law recognition. There is no connection between the CF's recognition for any purposes under it's purview and the requirements of CIC for immigration purposes.
As this question interested me, I posed the circumstances to an acquaintance who worked for immigration. Though the examination of potential sponsors/immigrants is no longer part of his job, he did inform me that there had been a change a few years ago pertaining to this issue. At one time recognition of common-law status for the purpose of sponsoring a "Spouse or Common-law Partner in Canada" class of applicant was only given when the foreign national partner was legally in Canada under a student or temporary worker visa (foreigners who can legally be in Canada continually for more than a year). This has changed in that someone who has overstayed a visitor's visa and has been co-habiting conjugally for more than a year
"may" be considered in the same class. There are a number of other conditions that also have to be met.
When I presented the situation as per the OP (American partner, multiple year relationship, most financial items conjoined, partner frequently returns to USA for employment ,etc), he opined that the common-law relationship
"could possibly in some cases depending on the officer examining" be recognized by CIC. One particular factor that could be a bar to recognition is the frequent returns to the country of origin without the Canadian partner also moving. He noted that by going back to the USA and returning to Canada, the individual may have been in Canada legally when he was here, but he also likely kept restarting the clock on the one year co-habitation requirement.
What does this have to do with the CF recognizing a common-law relationship? Absolutely nothing! However, my expectation would be (if this situation was examined by CF authorities) that a similar view would be held - that leaving Canada without the Canadian partner would restart the clock.