Recent content by stacey101

woah no, never the crazy ex! yikes! A very sad one, but not crazy.... Crashes, in regards to my hopes of him accepting me not happening! LOL His mom actually invited me to stay in her hotel the entire stay ( i was going to book my own room, but when she found out i was coming she told me to...

I think i've included everyones comment if I havent, very sorry I did read them all tho! As for someone to talk about it too, in the area - he literally is...was my only friend outside of coworkers who have now moved. I wasnt lonely before the break up,  that only set in when this all went down...

he hardly speaks to his mom, all of 4 times - 3 calls 1 text. I use to hear from him nightly. I spoke to him about seeing him the day before, he replied "you'd be spending it alone or with who ever you hook up with" -- these are the comments that make no sense to me, from messages telling me...

he has 1.5 weeks left. Unfortunately, I think i pushed him too far without even knowing it. The last 2 weeks were filled with nearly hateful comments from him to me, and i just stopped 'chasing him' mid last week to give him his space. On Saturday, i logged onto facebook and thats when I found...

Absolutely, i was always nervous just kissing him when he'd visit me at work when my job was beyond...normal LOL just going have to take it all in after... and if.... he allows us to take him into town after.

Thank you for clearing that up!  I guess the 'see if he melts' test can go ahead

At this point, im really hope we will be leaving the building still as boyfriend and girlfriend and thats if he'll want to leave with me.  Working myself up big time for this

I kinda figured the no hug/hand rule, shame :/ its hard not to put thoughts in my own head, but a couple of the hostile comments he's made the last week is making that hard. But i trust him... so im going to keep my chin up until Grad.  He is no longer taking my support, or messaging. So over...

I would of visited him on the weekends if flights weren't so expensive to get off the rock .  Being left at the gate... that is beyond depressing :( Im happy we both established weeks ago the 'accept the new life style/change or we can't do this' wagon. Like mentioned above, this literally went...

Sorry I just assumed that was a normal thing for basic training long distance relationships :) ( and no i havent seen him since as I was on the other side of the world volunteering with orphaned wildlife so we agreed to wait until November when we thought he was coming home for 2 weeks, now that...

this helps A LOT!  Thank you so much !

As most of you have more then likely seen my first post on the current issue between myself and my boyfriend who is in basic right now -  I am going to his graduation. Because of the thoughts he is having right now in regards to leaving me and such ( which i strongly believe its the separation...

haha! :)

Haha excellent! I've got to thank you all, this is the first forum in my tries of 3 for help on the topic and you've been so supportive to a total stranger . Each other forum became negative and hostile, I just had to leave them.  Thank you all again!

Thank you! I know going into this and until the past week it was rock solid, and once again that is which has help lead to so much confusion and questioning this new line of thoughts in his head.